CommunicationQuestion 908 of 1700

Why should you avoid asking a resident “Why are you so upset?”

  1. The question is too short to be of use
  2. “Why” questions may sound like accusations and cause defensiveness
  3. It is a closed question that needs only a yes or no
  4. It gives the resident too much hope
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Correct answer: “Why” questions may sound like accusations and cause defensiveness

Rephrase it, for example, “You seem upset. What’s on your mind?”

Source: Nursing Assistant (Reuter), 1.3: Communication Within the Health Care Team

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Questions last reviewed: 18 October 2026